A Newborn Minnie becomes one of the Britain's youngest organ
donors at 23 days old after her parents choose to make her life short count.
Her life was cut tragically short, but little Minne Duggleby's legacy will live on.
At just 23 days, the beautiful newborn became one of the youngest organ donors in the UK, giving the gift of life just hours after she passed away.
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Her selfless parents, Ami and Liam Duggleby, from East Yorkshire, were devastated when doctors told them within 24 hours of their daughter's birth that she was suffering congenital heart problems.
The newborn also had vital muscles missing from her throat, and specialists told the couple she was unlikely to survive multiple open heart surgeries to repair her fragile, under-developed heart.
Rather than let their daughter suffer, the couple made the heartbreaking decision to let her pass away peacefully.
But amidst their grief, Mr and Mrs Duggleby, made a second, selfless decision.
They asked doctors at Leeds General Infirmary if Minnie's organs could be donated, after she died at 23 days old.
The newborn became one of only the six neonatal organ donors in the UK.
Her kidneys were removed and transplanted into an adult donor, who is now recovering from their operation.
Mrs Duggleby said: 'We wanted to make sure Minnie touched someone else’s life besides ours.
'Minnie wasn’t going to have the chance to grow up but we really wanted to feel she had the chance to change lives. She's done more in her little life than I have in 28 years.
'It's just made a really horrific experience more positive. We will never forget her.'
Mr and Mrs Duggleby married last spring, and immediately started trying for another child, a sibling for their three-year-old daughter Lilly. Mrs Duggleby's pregnancy was going smoothly, until a midwife noticed she was bigger than expected at 32 weeks.
She was induced at 37 weeks, at Scarborough General Hospital, and baby Minnie was born weighing 6lb 14oz. She was fine when she was born so we were allowed to stay with her and after an hour things started to change and she went a funny colour,' Mrs Duggleby, recalled.
'I didn't realise how serious it was.
But a scan just after her birth revealed Minnie was suffering a defect called tracheoesophageal fistula, which meant the pipe connecting Minnie's throat to her stomach hadn't connected properly.
Minnie was taken to Leeds General Infirmary overnight for emergency surgery which proved to be a success.
But it was there that doctors then detected Minnie was suffering from a heart murmur, and discovered part of her heart was severely underdeveloped. Doctors told her parents Minnie would need three open heart surgeries before she was five, and was not expected to live past 30.
They also found she was missing vital muscles in her throat that would need operating on.
However, further tests led doctors to conclude that Minnie was unlikely to survive even one operation. It was devastating, she was only 24 hours old and then I'm 28 - to think she would only live to my age,' Mrs Duggleby said.
'It was a case of putting her through horrific operations for her to potentially die, and her quality of life would have been terrible. She would still need ventilating.
Refusing to watch their daughter suffer, and on what was due to be the date Minnie was born, the couple asked that Minnie be taken off her ventilator and allowed to pass away peacefully.
Her mother said: 'We would rather she be with us and comfortable rather than dying on the operating table. We were in one of the family rooms, trying to take it all in and that’s when I decided I wanted to find out if Minnie could be an organ donor.
'I’ve carried an organ donor card since I was 17 and Liam and I are both strong believers in organ donation. I had a vague idea it wasn’t something usual for very young babies but it was something we really wanted to do. The doctor couldn't believe we brought donation up. We didnt realise this was something they had never done.
The couple were able to give Minnie her first bath, make hand prints and spend precious time, holding and cuddling her before she passed away.
Minnie died in her mother’s arms and as arrangements were made for the donation, she and Mr Duggleby focused hard on the hope she was giving.
'It was so hard, but it meant so much to know that the specialist nurses were always with Minnie,' she said.
We knew she was treated gently and with every respect and when she came back she was perfect and we could spend as much time as we needed together with her.
'At the moment Minnie went I did think there is someone out there who’s just had a phone call they have been waiting for and are on their way to a hospital
It does help me now to think of that; just to think of how that person might now be able to do really simple things, like enjoying a sunny day.
Mr Duggleby, 26, said: 'You want to do as much as possible for them.
'I'm used to be able to fix stuff but you can't. I was trying to keep everybody positive but I couldn't do anything.
Minnie was then taken to surgery, where her organs were removed, before she was taken back to her parents who dressed her in an outfit they had requested.
Mrs Duggleby said: 'When we went home I desperately didn't want to go but I needed to.
'It was probably the most horrendous walk out of hospital in my life as on Clarendon Wing there's people there with their babies and we had to sort funeral plans.
Within two weeks of her dea'th Minnie's funeral was held, with her parents having to go through the heartbreaking trauma of registering her birth and dea'th at the same time.
The couple have since received a letter of thanks from the person who was gifted with Minnie's kidneys.
I could honestly burst with pride for Minnie,' Mrs Duggleby added.
'There's a part of Minnie and a part of me in that person and without it they might never have got a donor.
The couple are speaking out to raise awareness and encourage more people to sign up to the NHS Organ Donor Register.
Dr Simon Flood, one of the clinical leads for organ donation at LTH, said: 'Ami and Liam's remarkable courage, at a time of great sadness and personal loss, has touched the hearts and lives of many people across Yorkshire and we hope it'll enable more families to consider donation.
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